When something isn’t working out, after trying and trying, maybe we need to stop and re-evaluate what we’re supposed to be doing at this time.
If the door has closed on you, it’s only a matter of time before you realise that if you continue to bang your head against the closed door that it’s still not going to open! So you may as well accept that a certain situation is not happening right now. It’s better to turn around and see which other doors are open?
In life we can’t control everything. But we can always control our responses. And we certainly chose how long we stay in a place agonisingly.
So rather then forcing, be free…be free by accepting life events and make the best out of a seemingly bad situation.